Monday, December 4, 2006

In This Century Emotional People Are Fool !

In today’s world people started believing live in relationship. We lost faith on marriages. There is no meaning of emotions. Suppose you are emotional it means someone could take you for ride and take advantage of your innocence. There is no sense to share your feelings with someone because there is very less people who could understand your feeling and give you good suggestion .we should be practical because there is no need of emotional person in this egotistic world. But in my opinion we must have emotion in our self.
Feeling for someone is the first step towards the relationship and by emotions we give a platform to start a relation between us and after spending the precious time of our life with that person, we in love. This generally called friendship in the beginning and in few cases friendship becomes into relationship as a hubby, better half of someone and best friend.

Emotion is the first language which comes first before stating of any relationship and which help us to know who will become our good friend. Sometime we can read other’s face because of emotion. It directly comes on your face from your heart and you can’t hide it. Emotions come and speak those things which we don’t want to say. Emotion is the thing which makes us cry for someone who is very near and dear, only thinking of that person makes us cry because of theses unwanted feelings for that adorable and precious one.

But now the time is changing, people are becoming selfish. They have no importance of feelings in their life. They just know how to use others and make their work. Even they can do flatter also if you are the one with whom they have work, till the implementation of the work, they will talk very nicely and after completing they will never recognize you who are you. It is really very dreadful but there is still a few relationships in this wonderful world where people know the importance of emotions and they respect other’s sentiments, never try to behave like these self-interested people.

Suppose if you love someone and you don’t have emotion for her then how could you spend your whole life with that person even after marriage you can’t carry on your bond because without any sentiment you can’t understand your partner, her feelings, her sorrows. I mean you can’t discount all these things, all these looking very petty but, these petty things matters a lot in our life. These small things are the main pillars which matter most in our life. So we can’t ignore the importance of the emotions. Without feelings we can’t imagine any relationship.

" Friendship "

Friendship what is ? Generally people interact most with whom, they start thinking about that person and To whom they spend their valuable time they think that he is his best friend. Actually this philosophy works only in 90% cases. I do not agree with this philosophy .If any person say that he has 4 or 5 best friends it mean he is wrong .because Two Is Company And Three Is Crowd .you can’t find more then two best friend in your life. if still you are saying yes, it means you are living in dark .I feel if you and your friend’s think a pole apart but still you are very good friends it means that person is really your true friend. If he always not agree with your decision and always gives you right suggestion whether it is match with your view or not .and he always stand with you while you are in trouble to prop up you . It’s a reality of life. if still you have such friend it may be because opposite poles attracts. In my opinion we should cautious with that person who always agree with your view, never refuse or never give their suggestion. I feel agreeing in every matter makes the life monotonous. friends are gift of Gods our heavenly fathers send a friend who is not just an acquaintance but who is just like you with whom u can share all your heartache whenever you are in trouble a tenderly hand to pet your back and ears to listen to all your woes.